A Birthday Tribute
Today, I want to pause and dedicate this space to someone who often prefers to stay in the background, quietly making sure everyone else is okay: my husband. It’s his birthday, and while he probably wouldn’t ask for any grand speeches or gestures, he deserves more than just a simple “Happy Birthday.” So here’s my tribute—public, heartfelt, and long overdue. And yes, he selflessly sacrificed his birthday this year to host 60 people over to our house for our son’s 100 day BBQ.
There’s a saying that love is about partnership, and you’ve shown me what that really means. You’re the rock of our family, not just in the big, obvious ways but in the subtle, unseen moments that truly matter. You hold me—and us—to a high standard, not out of criticism, but because you see potential even when I can’t. You never fail to demonstrate a quiet strength, even when life feels tough and grey.
I’m grateful for how you protect us, not just physically but emotionally. You have this innate ability to see what I need before I’ve even said it aloud. You’re considerate, compassionate and willing to talk things out. Whether it’s stepping in to shoulder a burden I didn’t realise I was carrying or reminding me to rest when I’m feeling overwhelmed, you are the safeguard I didn’t know I needed.
And your love isn’t loud; it doesn’t demand attention. It’s in the way you greet our baby when you get home from a 15 hour work day, making silly faces just to hear his laugh. It’s in the way you plan ahead of our destination, ensuring we’re safe. It’s in the way you gently remind me to slow down when I’m rushing through life.
On your birthday, I want you to know that your sacrifices don’t go unnoticed. Your unwavering commitment to our family, your drive to provide not just a home but a haven, and your quiet way of being our protector and guide. They are noticed and appreciated beyond comprehension.
As we celebrate you today, I hope you see the depth of my gratitude. I hope you feel the weight of how much you’re loved, not just by me, but by friends and family near and far who travelled to celebrate our baby’s 100 days — and you.
Happy birthday to the man who never stops looking out for us, to the partner I’m so lucky to walk through life with, and to the father our child is lucky to look up to. You are more than enough, always.
Here’s to you, today and every day. We love you.
